I’m ready for an adventure

by Lara on April 22, 2014

I have travelled far less than I intended to in my life.  I feel like I have the heart of a backpacker, but never was one.  Or maybe I just like to imagine I have the heart of a backpacker because I don’t think I’m *quite* as brave as I would need to be.  Either way, I wanted to explore the world.

I lived in Korea in 1999/2000

If you had asked me in my twenties what kind of travel I wanted to do, it was to see and experience new things. I got just a taste of Asia when I lived there in 1999/2000 but wanted to go back and see more. I wanted to explore countries all over the world and learn about them and try new things – even if they were scary.

The idea of all inclusive resorts and cruises had zero appeal because I wanted to be discovering new cultures and trekking around the world.  But then I went to an all inclusive and I’ll admit…  It was awfully relaxing.  I wasn’t bored.  I had naps and ate too much food.  And I learned the difference between a holiday and travelling.

Then I had kids and the idea of travelling sounded like a lot of work. I was tired. Relaxing sounded better and so I started making all of my travel dreams about holidays and sleeping and sand and drinks and pools and beaches.

I’m not really any less tired as I write this, but I’m realizing that I’m spending a lot of years forgetting to have adventures and I want to stop that.  So I’m planning an adventure.  It probably won’t be a wild and crazy adventure (like travelling through India, which I want to do, but not yet) but it’ll be an adventure.

To have that adventure I need to save up some money.  I also need to figure out where I want to go, what I want to see and how long I’ll be gone.  Given the fact that I can’t be gone for months at a time and I’m not ready to bring the kinds on an adventure, I’m thinking maybe Europe would be a good place to start.  My mind is spinning at the idea and I’m excited to get going. But I think I’ll still plan for a holiday next year too :)

1 comments
amyboughner
amyboughner

Travelling is one thing that I always wanted to do that I've missed out on. I'm really glad to have been across Canada but I've never been outside it. I envy people who did that before marriage and kids and responsibilities

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